Forum:Volcanic Queen effect

Im going to use Volcanic Queen in my D.D Deck. The effect says I can send one other card I control to the graveyard to inflict 1000 damage to my opponent. Does it refer to me who special summoned it to the opponents side of the field, or he who controls it on his side of the field?

And both players have to either tribute one monster on the field to the graveyard during the end phase or take 1000 damage, because of her second effect. Can I use D.D Surivor to either both effect with Dimensional Fissure and tribute him. But because he will be removed from play and not send to the graveyard, does Volcanic Queens effect still work or do I have to take 1000 damage?

And by the way of do I write down my name? /Rosef